http://www.iewy.com/12937-nyu-silver-professor-awarded-nih-grant-to-study-adolescent-sexual-behavior.html IEWY PR - Quality Submission for your Press Release Wed, 01 May 2013 06:37:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.iewy.com/12937-nyu-silver-professor-awarded-nih-grant-to-study-adolescent-sexual-behavior.html/comment-page-1#comment-70317 Regilany Sat, 18 Feb 2012 10:29:48 +0000 http://www.iewy.com/12937-nyu-silver-professor-awarded-nih-grant-to-study-adolescent-sexual-behavior.html#comment-70317 Orientation lbales need brushing up. There are so many types of lesbians, so many types of heteros, so many types of gays and so many bisexuals and trans and queer folk that these lbales do not suffice.When I define my sexuality as bisexual , a lot of people interpret this to mean I am a horny straight guy with such low selectivity that when no women are within bedding distance I will partake of men as a fallback. Other people interpret it to mean that I am a closeted/unresolved gay who's still struggling with acceptance (Dan Savage, as much as I love your stuff, you speak of bisexuality from a biased lens).When I say I'm bisexual, it means I have strong emotional, romantic and sexual attraction for both women and men. It means I am drawn to, and enjoy, both genders.But this does a poor job at describing me. If I were to go more granular in an attempt to be more specific, I'd say I am a male-born, male-formed cyclical flex queer. Sometimes I identify as male and as a male enjoy ravishing a woman. Sometimes I identify as female, and still would enjoy being with a woman, but in a lesbian setting (pegging, trib, mutual oral, frottage, lots of kissing/cuddling, etc.) Sometimes I identify as a man and want to be with a man, in a mutual naughty boys setting. Sometimes I identify as female, and want to be ravished by a man made love to, and held afterward.How to label this? How to box it up and package it into one word? Orientation lbales need brushing up. There are so many types of lesbians, so many types of heteros, so many types of gays and so many bisexuals and trans and queer folk that these lbales do not suffice.When I define my sexuality as bisexual , a lot of people interpret this to mean I am a horny straight guy with such low selectivity that when no women are within bedding distance I will partake of men as a fallback. Other people interpret it to mean that I am a closeted/unresolved gay who’s still struggling with acceptance (Dan Savage, as much as I love your stuff, you speak of bisexuality from a biased lens).When I say I’m bisexual, it means I have strong emotional, romantic and sexual attraction for both women and men. It means I am drawn to, and enjoy, both genders.But this does a poor job at describing me. If I were to go more granular in an attempt to be more specific, I’d say I am a male-born, male-formed cyclical flex queer. Sometimes I identify as male and as a male enjoy ravishing a woman. Sometimes I identify as female, and still would enjoy being with a woman, but in a lesbian setting (pegging, trib, mutual oral, frottage, lots of kissing/cuddling, etc.) Sometimes I identify as a man and want to be with a man, in a mutual naughty boys setting. Sometimes I identify as female, and want to be ravished by a man made love to, and held afterward.How to label this? How to box it up and package it into one word?

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